Well, color me surprised. I do not like surprises by the way. I am not happy when things do not happen according to plan or at least logic.

My haven is BYB. I live there in a sense. You can imagine my surprise when an old buddy from another board showed up out of the blue. I was glad to see her. I know she used to have a lot of struggles as a mom and with her health and she was always ready to debate and discuss. I am glad to have her join us, no matter the past history or who her friends IRL or online are.